2月26日

小魚多大了？別太刺激我了，小花生上的娃個(gè)個(gè)都忒強(qiáng)了。。。。。。

哎呦呦，儂勿好噶謙虛的呀

人生在世，總是難免要和別人比較，偏偏我每次比的時(shí)候看到的都是別人家孩子厲害的地方。。。。。。。。

天天來看確實(shí)會(huì)感到壓力！家庭教育都做的非常好，比旺旺網(wǎng)的氛圍強(qiáng)太多了！

有次跟一個(gè)朋友分享的感受，你覺得是不是這么回事啊？
A while ago, I read an article based on a new study which focuses on finding, if any, the relationship of the amount of time people spend on Facebook and the happiness they find in their lives. The conclusion is interesting but rather intuitive that the more time we spend on reading others' blogs, the more likely we are to believe everyone’s life is better than ours and consequently, we feel unhappy about ourselves. For example, people more often than not are pretty self-selecting with what they put online. They are more likely to post photos of themselves with smiles and having fun . . . we don’t see a photo album of people with the sad facial expression. This phenomenon may lead us to believe that EVERYONE’S lives are more exciting, happy, and better than ours. The article also suggests that a better way to connect with people is to sometimes turn off the computer and go out and socialize face-to-face with actual human beings. With this said, I am still surfing online ...

旺旺氛圍也很厲害的，但是那里更多的是討論如何應(yīng)付考試，買什么輔導(dǎo)教材，報(bào)什么課外班，如何進(jìn)名小學(xué)、名初中。小花生這里的氛圍更注重素質(zhì)教育，看似沒有太多的眼前功利，而實(shí)際上是一種更寬泛、更高層次的追求，猶如決勝于千里之外。不知這個(gè)評價(jià)是否客觀。沒有貶褒哪一個(gè)網(wǎng)站的意思，應(yīng)該說，這些網(wǎng)站都為我們提供了交流信息和分享經(jīng)驗(yàn)的平臺。你所感到的壓力人人有，相信我。

我喜歡那個(gè)誰說的，把孩子的一生拉長來看，就能明白在兒童時(shí)期，對孩子來說最重要的是什么，不是說考試擇校不重要，那個(gè)也很重要，但是把它當(dāng)成了童年的全部，孩子就太可憐了。

給你的兩個(gè)項(xiàng)目都加張圖片吧，這樣會(huì)更好看一點(diǎn)。

很有道理，一個(gè)朋友，在網(wǎng)上貼的內(nèi)容怎么看怎么好，孩子聽話，生活富足，夫妻恩愛。但是私下見面的時(shí)候，總是跟我吐苦水。
我們再討論下去，樓主的樓不知道要給我們歪到哪里去了

說得對！