多去鼓勵孩子

positive discipline

#encouragement# 

A child needs encouragement 

like a plant needs water. 

Children will do better 

when they feel better. 

Praise may work 

at behavior temporarily. 
praise like candy ,can be enjoyable 

on occasion,but too much can be 

unhealthy and addictive. 

Encouragement however should be the staple that to give to yourself and your family everyday. 

Encouragement allows your children 

to see themselves as being capable ,and it values their effort rather than 

perfection or pleasing others. 

Encouragement often invites children to make changes,but only because they experienced the love and belonging that invites them to change their belief. 

Positive discipline tools are everywhere. 

我家最近正在“提速”小朋友吃飯的時間（半小時內(nèi)，感謝好助手沙漏） 

昨晚晚飯，家人一起用餐。 
難免有某位隊友不自覺說話，造成不安靜的干擾孩子用餐環(huán)境。 

小朋友看著僅僅剩下3分之一不到的沙漏和大半碗粥，“”媽媽你看怎么辦？我肯定吃不完了…" 

我和善而堅定地說“沒關(guān)系的，你知道龜兔賽跑的故事吧？看起來慢吞吞永遠(yuǎn)不可能贏的烏龜反而贏了比賽，我們也來試一試，和時間賽跑，看看誰會第一？你肯定行的！” 

鼓勵的話語 
像是給一個卸了氣的皮球瞬間鼓足了氣！ 

小朋友專心致志吃飯不再受干擾，只專注于目標(biāo)“和時間賽跑”，結(jié)果是趕超時間，迅速吃完了大半碗飯。 

Encouragement

makes her feel capable. 
鼓勵可以幫助孩子成長為一個更加自信，獨立的人！